Showing posts with label #family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #family. Show all posts

Saturday, March 10, 2018

Very Few Women (Day 416)


Very few women my age 
worked with visionaries. 
We were too busy: talking, 
frosting birthday cakes,
mopping the floors to
a mirrorlike finish. Really, 
being a housewife was
a very big deal. Respectable. 
My friends and I grew up 
looking forward to keeping 
our own homes. Now, it’s 
called something different: 
domestic engineering.
These young girls today, 
they think they want it all: 
Dating, college, husbands, 
corner-office careers, and 
then the kids, and those 
ridiculous jogging strollers—
they don’t run enough?
We could have done it all,
too, of course, but we 
focused on raising our sons 
and daughters to be less like 
their parents. Well, I for one 
am just glad I was able to be 
there for my children when 
they came home from school. 
The world is different now, 
though, isn’t it? Too expensive. 
And dangerous—all these men 
with guns, shooting everyone! 
Who knows? My turn may be 
next. Or yours. So, we’ll see.


(c) 2018, by Hannah Six

Image: ArtsyBee/Pixabay

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Her Place in the World (Day 293)


She is small, 
barely tall enough 
to reach 
the first swinging hoop 
from the little metal platform 
welded onto the jungle gym. 
So, when the big 
blond-haired boy 
with the raspy voice 
taunted her, 
she froze. 

And when he shoved her 
out of line and 
she landed hard 
on the concrete, 
she remained silent, 
and the other children 
did nothing, 
their eyes averted 
in fear and shame 
and the mild disgust 
the world feels for victims. 

Later, she recounted the story 
while her mother and 
grandmother cooked dinner. 
When she showed them 
her scraped elbow, 
her mother said: 
"What did you do 
to make him shove you?" 
Her grandmother added: 
"He sounds like 
a very sad little boy. 
You should pray for him." 

That day she learned 
about her place 
in the world, 
about what she could 
expect, and what she 
should tolerate. 

So, when her husband 
screamed at her for buying 
creamy peanut butter 
instead of crunchy, 
she found herself 
thinking how sorry 
he must be, and that
she needed to pray 
for him.




Intimate-partner violence (IPV), or domestic violence (DV), affects all of us in some way. 

For example: mass shootings significantly impacted children: 25 percent of mass shooting fatalities (211) were children. This is primarily driven by mass shootings related to domestic or family violence, in which over 40 percent of fatalities were children. (EverytownResearch.org)

 For a wealth of information about IPV/DV, or to seek *confidential* help, please visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline website, or call the Hotline at 1-800-799-7233




(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

Image: Andreas160578



Wednesday, November 1, 2017

Native Intelligence (Day 287)


He comes and goes 
under cover of darkness, 
even on a sunlit day,
the soft click click click 
of his bike gears
often the only sound 
giving him away 
when he wheels it, 
scowling and stomping, 
under my window
because he does 
not like to work.
It’s a shame, really, 
considering
his native intelligence, 
uncultivated and neglected, 
despite the myriad 
advantages that 
ripened and fell, plum-like,
onto the green grass 
around him while 
he idled on the lawn 
outside the modest but clean
white vinyl-sided house
where he grew shabby
and thick with weeds. 
His few friends--
partners in crime, 
his mother joked 
each night when he came in
--might have considered 
his descent a warning, 
had they grown up
in a town worth 
staying in--or even 
a town worth leaving.


(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

Image: TheoLeo via Pixabay 

Monday, October 30, 2017

By the Phone (Day 285)

Upstairs  
in the spare 
room   imagining
your face 
with a mixture 
of dread 
and longing
I hang up 
the phone   cord 
snaps back 
into place   
  phones 
    had 
     twisty 
 spiral
    cords 
  then   
and tiptoe down
the stairs 
because my mother 
forbade me to 
call boys   I was 
supposed to wait  
for them 
to phone me   
but    somehow
the threat of 
being alone always 
terrified me 
more 
than my mother’s 
quick temper.


(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

Free image via MaxPixel

Thursday, October 5, 2017

Dripping Words (Day 260)

old-fashioned roses 
russet pathway 
wends  hard-edged 
encircling a bench 
we chose in glossy 
April’s warmth  coffee 
cups in hand  legs 
splayed casually  
sunshine fierce  naïve 
and future-bound  
doubtless   in cocoons  
humming and content  
dripping words that 
never mattered as much 
as what we meant


(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

Image: Pixabay

Sunday, September 10, 2017

Before 1980 (Day 235)


Lake-shore picnic lunch
Among beloved strangers
Snowfields in summer

Memories drift, floating home
Spirits caught in ash and stone



In memory of my uncle, Gordon H. Fiske, who passed away this morning.
(c) 2017, by Hannah Six


Image: Lyn Topinka

Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Afternoon Melts (Day 217)

afternoon melts 
warm breeze through 
topaz days of baseball 
and lawn-mowing and 
complex watery 
flowers sliding down 
lilac and gray 
evenings drawn long as 
tart cherry pie 
tender crisp and sweet 



(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

(Image: Vintage picnic [1962], courtesy of Heather)

Sunday, July 16, 2017

Abuelita, June 2017 (Day 179)


We crossed the border in
a rusted Falcon, on a wheel 
that was starting to go flat. 

A fountain of dust spouted 
behind us, tinting the sky  
terra-cotta where the sun shone,

Powdering our car, skin, food 
with an ancient, ubiquitous grit,
metallic on our tongues, like blood.

Whenever we passed another 
car, truck, any sign of civilization, 
she ducked and covered herself. 

Before the stark mountains, a plain, 
monotony interrupted here and there 
by run-down, sun-broken signs. 

We drove through darkness, wide 
open to the desert air, vibrating
under a million spinning galaxies.



(c) 2017, by Hannah Six

Photo: Rennett Stowe